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The Nature of the Psyche -Seth's views on Sex
"Western society has attempted to force all expression
of love into sexual activity, or otherwise ban it entirely. Sexual performance
is considered the one safe way of using the great potential of human emotions.
When it seems to you that society is becoming licentious, in many ways it is
most inhibited."
In Psyche, Seth addresses himself to the matter of
human sexuality for the first time in his published works, discussing it as it
relates to the private and mass psyche, and connecting sexuality with its
spiritual and biological sources.
Now
we discover that such references were tailored to our own rather... limited
ideas of the qualities assigned to the sexes, for in Psyche Seth makes it
clear that the psyche is not male
or female, "but a bank from .which sexual affiliations are drawn.” He
stresses the bisexual nature of humanity and the importance of bisexuality, both
spiritually and biologically.
But Seth's bisexuality is a far vaster concept than the
ones usually suggested by that term, and he sees it as a basic source from which
our sexual definitions arise. What are those definitions? How many are basic,
and how many learned? It is to such questions that Seth addresses himself. More:
He ties in his discussion of sexuality with the birth of languages and the
nature of "the hidden God".
The
psyche is not only the repository for sexual affiliation, however, but contains
hidden abilities and characteristics which are then triggered into activity by
exterior stimuli.
Distorted
beliefs about sexuality can hold back psychic or spiritual progress, for
example, and Seth discusses such issues thoroughly. The questions of lesbianism
and homosexuality are also considered, along with their private and social
effects.
We
were most eager to get this particular material to the public, since many
correspondents write requesting Seth's views on sexuality.
Sexuality is the only
strong area of energy with which some people are connected, so it becomes the
focal point for all of their beliefs about the self in general.
In doing some of these exercises, you might come across
images of masturbation, homosexual or lesbian encounters, or simply old sexual
fantasies, and immediately backtrack because your beliefs may tell you that
these are evil.
The Psyche in Relationship to Sexual Elements.
The He and She-the She and He
Distorted ideas about sexuality prevent many people
from attaining any close connection with the inner experience that continually
stirs beneath ordinary consciousness. It is a good idea, then, to look at the
psyche and its relationship to sexual identity.
The
psyche is not male or female. In your system of belief,
however, it is often identified as feminine, along with the artistic
productions that emerge from its creativity. In that context, the day hours and
waking consciousness are thought of as masculine, along with the sun-while the
nighttime, the moon, and the dreaming consciousness are considered feminine or
passive. In the same manner, aggression is usually understood to be violent
assertive action, male-oriented, while female elements are identified in terms
of the nurturing principle.
Physically speaking, you would have no males or females
unless first you had individuals. You are each individuals first of all, then.
After this, you are individuals of a specific sex, biologically speaking. The
particular kind of focus that you have is responsible for the great significance
you place upon male and female. Your hand and your foot have different
functions. If you wanted to focus upon the differences in their behavior, you
could build an entire culture based upon their diverse capabilities, functions
and characteristics. Hands and feet are obviously equipment belonging to both
sexes, however. Still, on another level the analogy is quite valid.
The psyche is male and female, female and male; but
when I say this I realize that you put yourown definitions upon those terms to
begin with.
Biologically, the sexual orientation is the method
chosen for continuation of the species. Otherwise, however, no specific
psychological characteristics of any kind are attached to that biological
functioning. I am quite aware that in your experience definite physical and
psychological differences do exist. Those that do are the result of programming,
and are not inherent-even biologically-in the species itself.
The vitality of the species in fact was assured because
it did not overspecialize in terms of sexuality. There was no fixed mating
period, for example. Instead, the species could reproduce freely so that in the
event of catastrophe of any kind, it would not be so tied into rigid patterns
that it might result in extinction.
The challenges and problems of the species were
different from those of others. It needed additional safeguards. The more
flexible mating pattern was one. With this came a greater diversity in
individual characteristics and behavior, so that no individual was bound to a
strictly biological role. If that were true, the species never would have been
concerned beyond the issues of physical survival, and such is not the case. The
species could have survived quite well physically without philosophy, the arts,
politics, religion, or even structured language. It could have followed
completely different paths, those tied strictly to biological orientation.
There would have been no question of men performing
so-called feminine tasks, or of women performing so-called masculine tasks, for
there no leeway for that kind of individual action would have existed.
For that matter, there is far greater leeway in the
behavior of animals than you understand, for you interpret animal behavior
according to your own beliefs. You interpret the past history of your species
in the same manner. It seems to you that the female always tended to the
offspring, for example, nursing them, that she was forced to remain close to
home while the male fought off enemies or hunted for food. The ranging male,
therefore, appears to have been much more curious and aggressive. There was
instead a different kind of situation. Children do not come in litters. The
family of the caveman was a far more "democratic" group than you
suppose-men and women working side by side, children learning to hunt with both
parents, women stopping to nurse a child along the way, the species standing
apart from others because it was not ritualized in sexual behavior.
Except for the fact that males could not bear children,
the abilities of the sexes were interchangeable. The male was usually heavier, a
handy physical advantage in some areas-but the woman was lighter and could run
faster.
Women were also somewhat lighter because they would
bear the additional weight of a child. Even then, of course, there were
variances, for many women are larger than small men. But the women could hunt as
well as the men. If compassion, kindness, and gentleness were feminine
characteristics only, then no male could be kind or compassionate because such
feelings would not be biologically possible.
If your individuality was programmed by your biological
sex, then it would be literally impossible for you to perform any action that
was not sexually programmed. A woman cannot father a child, nor can a male bear
one.
Since
you are otherwise free to perform other kinds of
activity that you think
of as sexually oriented, in those areas the orientation is cultural.
You imagine, however, that the male is aggressive,
active, logical-minded, inventive, outwardly oriented, a builder of
civilizations. You identify the ego as male. The unconscious therefore seems to
be female, and the feminine characteristics are usually given as passive,
intuitive, nurturing, creative, uninventive, concerned with preserving the
status quo, disliking change. At the same time, you consider the intuitive
elements rather frightening, as if they can explode to disrupt known patterns,
dash-in unknown ways.
Males who are creatively gifted find themselves in some
dilemma, for their rich, sensed creativity comes into direct conflict with their
ideas of virility. Women who possess characteristics that are thought to be
masculine have the same problem on the other side.
In your terms the psyche is a repository of characteristics
that operate in union, composed of female and male elements. The human psyche
contains such patterns that can be put together in multitudinous ways. You have
categorized human abilities so that it seems that you are men or women, or women
and men primarily, and persons secondarily. Your personhood exists first,
however. Your individuality gives meanIng to your sex, and not the other way
around.
Now:
In direct opposition to current theories about the past, there was far less
sexual specialization, say, in the time of the caveman than now.
The
family was a very cooperative unit. The basis of early society was cooperation,
not competition. Families grouped together. There were children of various ages
in such a band all the time. When women were near birth, they performed those
chores that could be done in the cave dwellings, or nearby, and also watched
other young children; while the women who were not pregnant were off with the
males, hunting or gathering food.
If
a mother died, the father took over her responsibilities, the qualities of
love and affection being quite as alive in him as in the female. After a woman
bore, she nursed the child, taking it with her on food-gathering excursions, or
sometimes letting other women in the group nurse the child. Often after
childbirth, women immediately joined the hunting expeditions, and the fathers
made clothing from animals' hides at home. This allowed the male to rest after
prolonged hunting activity, and meant that no adult member of a family became
overexhausted. The work, then, was interchangeable.
Children began food gathering and hunting as soon as
they were able to-females as well as males-led by the older children, going
further away as they progressed in strength. Qualities of inventiveness,
curiosity, and ingenuity could not be delegated to one sex alone. The species
could not have survived such a division.
You are so used to thinking in terms of mechanics, that
it seems to you that uneducated people did not understand the connection between
the sexual act of intercourse and childbirth. You are so used to one kind of
explanation for childbirth, so familiar with one speciflc framework, that
alternate explanations appear to be the height of nonsense. So it is fashionable
to believe that early man did not understand the connection between intercourse
and birth.
Even the animals, however, understand without words or
language the importance of their sexual behavior. Early man was hardly more
ignorant. The male knew what he was doing even without textbooks that outlined
the entire procedure. The female understood the connections between the child
born and the sexual act.
It is the height of idiocy to imagine that because of
the time taken in pregnancy, the female could not understand the child's origin
in intercourse. The body's knowledge did not need a complicated language. For
that matter, your literal interpretation of childbirth is by some standards a
highly limited one. In your terms, it is technically correct.
But a
child born to two parents is also an offspring of the earth, its tissues as
surely a part of earth as any tree or flower, or burst of ocean spray. A human
child, true; but an offspring in which the entire history of the earth is
involved a new creation arising not just from two parents, but from the entire
gestalt of nature, from which the parents themselves once emerged; a private yet
public affair in which the physical elements of earth become individualized; in
which psyche and earth cooperate in a birth that is human, and in other terms,
divine.
Historically speaking, early mim in his way understood
those connections far better than you do, and used language as he developed it
to express first of all this miracle of birth. For he saw that he constantly
replenished his kind, and that all other species were replenished in the same
manner.
There was always more land. No matter how fast he ran
or how far he traveled, early man could not run out of land, or trees, or
forests, or food supplies. If he came to a desert, he still knew that fertile
lands were somewhere available, even if it was a matter of finding them. But the
world itself seemed to have no end. It was literally a limitless world in a way
most difficult for you to understand; for to you, the world has shrunk.
This unlimited world constantly replenished itself.
Children came from women's wombs. Man was acquainted with death, and many
children were stillborn, or were naturally aborted. This also, however, was in
the natural order of things, and was done far more easily then than now. All
flower seeds do not fall on fertile ground and bring forth other flowers. The
seeds that do not grow go [back] into the ground, forming the basis for other
life. Biologically speaking, fetuses grow and develop---I am going slowly here
because I am being tricky-and when innate consciousness emerges with proper form
the conditions are right for the birth of a healthy child: When the conditions
are not right, the child does not develop properly. Nature aborts it. The
physical elements return to the earth to become the basis for other life.
Only those children perfectly attuned to their environment
in time and space survived. This does not mean that the consciousness of a child
was annihilated, for example, if it was naturally aborted. It did not develop.
While there was no mating period, still there was a
close biological relationship between the species and the earth, so that women
naturally conceived when situations of climate, food supplies, and other
elements were beneficial.
Biologically, the species knew ahead of time when
droughts would appear, for example, and it automatically altered its rate of
conception to compensate; Left alone, animal species do the same thing. In broad
terms, early man was struck by the fact that all things seemed to reproduce
themselves, and it was this fact that first caught his attention. Later he used
what you think of as myths to explain this abundance. Yet those myths contained
a kind of knowledge that escapes your literal, specific interpretations of
sexual events. Such knowledge resides in the psyche, however. If you have any
direct experience with your own psyche, then you will most likely find yourself
encountering some kinds of events that will not easily fit with your own ideas
about your sexual nature.
Your beliefs about sexuaity, and hence your experience
with it, makes you consider it in a very limiting light.
The psyche's own knowledge, of course, is far more
expansive. Alterations of consciousness, or attempts on the part of the
individual to explore the inner self, may then easily display glimpses of a kind
of sexuality that can appear to be deviant or unnatural.
Even when social scientists or biologists explore human
sexuality, they do so from the framework of sexuality as it appears in your
world. There are quite natural sexual variations, even involving reproduction,
that are not now apparent in human behavior in any culture. These variations
appear in your world on only fairly microscopic levels, or in the behavior of
other species than your own.
New paragraph: When racial conditions require it, it is
quite possible for an individual to both father and mother a child. In such
cases, what vou would call complete spontaneous sexual reverses or
transformations would occur. Such processes are quite possible at microscopic
levels, and inherent in the cellular structure. Even in your world, currently
speaking, some individuals known as women could father their own children.
Some individuals "known as-men could give birth to
a child fathered by the same person could (underlined). The abilities are there.
The male-female, female-male orientation is not nearIy
as separate as it appears to be in your present experience.
It is not nearly as tied to psychological
characteristics as you suppose. Nor is it inherently focused in the particular
age period in which it now shows itself. Puberty arrives, so to speak, but the
time of its arrival varies according to the needs of the species, its conditions
and beliefs. You are an individual for life. You operate as a reproducing
individual, generally speaking, for only a portion of that time.
During
that period, many elements come into play and are meant to make the process
attractive to the individuals involved, and to their tribes, societies, or
civilizations. A relatively strong "sexual" identification is
important under those circumstances-but an overidentification with them, before
or afterward, can lead
to
stereotyped behavior, in which the greater needs and abilities of the individual
are not allowed fulfillment.
All
of this becomes very complicated because of your value judgments, which
oftentimes seem to lack-if you will forgive me--all natural common sense. You
cannot separate biology from your own belief systems. The interplay is too
vital. If each act of intercourse were meant to produce a child, you would have
overrun the planet before you began. Sexual activity is therefore also meant as
enjoyment, as an expression of pure exuberance.
A woman will often feel
her most sexually active in the midst of the menstrual period, precisely when
conception is least apt to occur. All kinds of taboos against sexual relations
have been applied here, particularly in so-called native cultures. In those
cultures, such taboos make good sense. Such peoples, building up the human
stock, intuitively knew that the population would be increased if relations were
restricted to periods when conception was most likely to occur. The blood was an
obvious sign that the woman at her period was relatively "barren" Her
abundance was gone. It seemed to their minds that she was indeed
"cursed" during that time.
I
have spoken before about the growth of what you call ego consciousness-which,
let me reiterate, has its own unique rewards. That psychological orientation
will lead the species to another, equally unique kind of consciousness.
When
the process began, however, the deep power of .nature had to be
"controlled" so that the growing consciousness could See itself as
apart from this natural source. Yet children, so necessary to the species,
continued to spring from women's wombs. Therefore the natural source was most
flagrant, observable, and undeniable. For that reason the species-and not the
male alone-placed so manv taboos about female behavior and sexualitv. In
"subduing" its own female elements, the species tried to gain some
psychological distance from the great natural source from which it was, for its
own reasons, trying to emerge.
In
the world of your present experience, sexual differences are less apparent as
you reach old age. Some women display what you think of as masculine
characteristics, growing hair about their faces, speaking with heavier voices,
or becoming angular; while some men speak with lighter, gentler tones than ever
before, and their faces grow smoother, and the contours of their bodies soften.
Before
puberty there is the same kind of seeming ambiguity. You stress the importance
of sexual identification, for it seems to you that a young child must know that
it will grow up to be a man or woman, in the most precise of terrns -toeing
the line in the least particular.
The
slightest deviation is looked upon with dismay, so that personal identity and
worth are completely tied into identification with femaleness or maleness.
Completely different characteristics, abilities, and performances are expected
from those in each category. A male who does not feel himself fully male,
therefore, does not trust his identity as a person. A
woman doubtful of her complete feniininity in the same manner does not
trust the integrity of her personhood.
A
lesbian or homosexual is on very shifting psychological ground, because the
same interests and abilities that they feel most personally theirs are precisely
those that mark them as sexual eccentrics.
These
are simple enough examples, but the man who possesses interests considered
feminine by your culture, who naturally wants to enter fields of interest
considered womanly, experiences drastic conflicts between his sense of
personhood and identity-and his sexuality as it is culturally defined. The same,
of course, applies to women.
Because
of your exaggerated focus, you therefore become relatively blind to other
aspects of "sexuality." First of all, sexuality per se does not
necessarily lead to intercourse. It can lead to acts that do not produce
children. What you think of as lesbian or homosexual activity is quite natural
sexual expression, biologically and psychologically. In more "ideal"
environments such activity would flourish to some extent, particularly before
and after prime reproductive years.
For
those literal-minded readers, this does not mean that such activity would
predominate at such times. It does mean that not all sexual activity is meant to
end in childbirth--which is a biological impossibility, and would represent
planetary catastrophe. So the species is blessed, if you will, with many avenues
for sexual expression.
The strong focus that now predominates does inhibit the
formation of certain kinds of friendships that would not necessarily at all
result in sexual activity.
Lesbianism and homosexuality, as they are currently
experienced, also represent exaggerated versions of natural inclinations, even
as your experienced version of
heterosexuality is exaggerated.
The
so-called battle of the sexes, with its ramifications, is not
"natural"-nor, in that context, is fighting between members of the
same sex. Even in the animal kingdom, for example, males do not fight to the
death over the females when they are in their natural state.
I
will clear up my meaning of the word "natural" later. However, when
you examine animal behavior even in its most natural-seeming environment, for
instance, you are not observing the basic behavior. patterns of such creatures,
because those relatively isolated areas exist in your world. Quite simply, you
cannot have one or two or twenty officially-designated natural regions in which
you observe animal activity, and expect to find anything more than the current
adaptation of those creatures--an adaptation that is superimposed upon their
"natural" reactions.
The balance of resources, animal travel patterns,
migrations, weather conditions--all of these must be taken into consideration.
Such isolated observation areas merely present you with a distorted picture of
natural behavior, because the animals are also imprisoned within them.
Civilization binds them round.
Other animals are kept out. The hunted and the prey are
highly regulated. All areas of animal behavior alter to fit the circumstances as
much as possible, and this includes sexual activity. To some extent the
animals have been conditioned to the changing world. Now man is obviously part
of nature, so you may say: "But those changes wrought by him are
natural." When he studies such animal behavior, however, and sometimes uses
the sexual patterns of the animals to mak~ certain points about human sexuality,
then man does not take this into consideration, but speaks as if the present
observed animal behavior is the indication of a prime or basic nature inherent
in their biology.
It is
not natural, then, for men to fight over women. This is a purely cultural,
learned behavior. In terms of history as you understand it, the species could
not withstand such misapplied energy, nor could it have withstood such constant
antagonism.
Each species is involved in a cooperative venture, upon
which ultimately all earthly existence rests. You project your present beliefs
backward into history, and you misinterpret many of the conditions that you
observe in the natural world. This cooperation that I speak of is based on love,
and that love has a biological as well as a spiritual basis. Your beliefs, for
example, cause you to deny the existence of emotions in animals, and any
instances of love among them are assigned to "blind" instinct.
To some extent the churches as well as the scientists
are responsible, but priests and scientists are not some roreign people, thrust
upon you. They represent various aspects of yourselves. The species developed
its own kind of consciousness, as it round it necessary to isolate itself to
some degree from its environment and the other creatures within it. As a result,
the religions preached that only man had a soul and was dignified by emotional
feelings. In its way science went along very nicely by postulating man in a
mechanistic world, with each creature run by an impeccable machine of
instinct, blind alike to pain or desire.
The love and cooperation that rorms the basis of all
life, however, shows itself in many ways. Sexuality represents one aspect, and
an important one. In larger terms, it is as natural for a man to love a man, and
for a woman to love awoman, as it is to show love for the opposite sex. For that
matter, it is more natural to be bisexual. Such is the "natural"
nature of the species.
Instead, you have put love into very definite
categories, so that its existence is right only under the most limited
conditions. Love goes underground, but springs up. in distorted rorms and
exaggerated tendencies.. You have rollowed this course for different reasons at
different times. Neither sex is to blame. Instead, your sexual situation is
simply another reflection of the state of your consciousness. As a species,
presently at least in the Western world, you equate sex and love. You imagine
that sexual expression is .the only one natural to love. Love, in other words,
must it seems express itself exclusively through the exploration , in one
way or another, of the beloved's sexual portions.
This
is hardly the only limitation placed upon love's expression, however. There are
innumerable books written with instructions, each proclaiming the said methods
to be the proper ones. Certain kinds of orgasm are "the best." Love's
expression is furthermore permitted only between members of the opposite sex.
Generally speaking, these individuals must be more or less of the same age.
There are other taboos, involving racial restrictions, or cultural, social, and
economic ones. If this were not enough, large segments of the population believe
that sex is wrong to begin with-a spiritual debasement, allowed by God only so
that the species can continue.
Since love and sex are equated, obvious conflicts
arise. Mother love is the only category that is considered wholesome, and
therefore nonsexual under most conditions. A father can feel very guilty about
his love for his children, for he has been conditioned to believe that love is
expressed only through sex, or else it is unmanly, while sex with one's children
is taboo.
Creativity rides the tides of love. When love is denied
its natural expression, creativity suffers. Your befiefs lead you to suppose
that a natural bisexuality would result in the death of the family, the
destruction of morals, rampant sexual crimes, and the loss of sexual identity. I
would say, however, that my last sentence adequately describes your present
situation. The acceptance of the species' natural bisexuality would ultimately
help solve not only those problems but many others, including the large
instances of violence, and acts of murder. In your terms, however, and in your
circumstances, there is not apt to be any easy transition.
The parent-child relationship has its own unique emotional
structure, which survives even those distortions you have placed upon it, and
its ancient integrity would not be weakened, but strengthened, if greater stress
were laid upon your bisexual nature.
Children would fare far better if the ancient parental
qualities were not so forcibly focused upon the mother. This in itself leads to
more dependence upon the mother than is healthy, and forms an artificial
allegiance between mother and child against the father.
Heterosexual
love is one important expression of bisexuality, and sexually represents the
reproductive abilities. Heterosexuality, however, rests the bisexual basis, and (without
man's bisexual nature, the larger frameworks of the family-the clan, tribe,
government, civilization-would be impossible.
Basically, then, man's inherent bisexuality provides
the basis for the cooperation that makes physical survival, and any kind of
cultural interaction, possible. If the "battle of the sexes" were as
prevalent as supposed, and as natural and ferocious, then there literally would
be no cooperation between males and females for any purpose. There would be none
between men or between women either, for they would be in a constant state of
battle against each other.
In the natural biological flow of a persons life, there
are periods of varying intensities, in which love and its expression fluctuates,
and tends toward different courses. There are also individual variations that
are of great importance. These natural rhythms are seldom observed, however.
Tendencies toward lesbianism or homosexuality in children are quite natural.
They are so feared, however, that often just-as-natural leanings toward
heterosexuality are blocked. Instead, the young person is stereotyped.
Individual inclinations toward creativity often emerge
in a strong fashion in adolescence. If those drives in either sex do not conform
in expression to those expected of the male or female, then such young persons
become confused. The creative expression seems to be in direct contradiction to
the sexual standards expected.
I am not saying that lesbianism and homosexuality are
merely stages leading to heterosexuality. I am saying that lesbianism,
homosexuality, and heterosexuality are valid expressions of man's bisexual
nature.
I am also stressing the fact that love and sexuality
are not necessarily the same thing. Sex is love's expression, but it is only one
of love's expressions. Sometimes it is quite "natural" to express love
in another way. Because of the connotations of the word "sex,"
however, it may seem to some of you that I am advocating a promiscuous sexual
relationship with "no holes barred".
Instead, I am saying that deeper bonds of biological
and spiritual love lie at the basis of all personal and cultural relationships,
a love that transcends your ideas of sexuality. Heterosexual love, as it is
understood at least, gives you a family of parents and children-an important
unit, about which other groups form. If only stereotyped ideas of female-male
relationships operated, however, there would be no bond or stimulus great enough
to forge one family to another. The antagonism between males would be too great.
Competition between females would be too severe. Wars would wipe out struggling
tribes before any traditions were formed.
In the social world as in the microscopic one,
cooperation again is paramount. Only a basic bisexuality could give the species
the leeway necessary, and prevent stereotyped behavior of a kind that would
hamper creativity and social commerce. That basic sexual nature allows you the
fulfillment of individual abilities, so that the species does not fall into
extinction. Man's recognition of his bisexual nature is, therefore, a must in
his future.
There
are, again, obvious differences between the sexes. They are insignificant, and
appear large only because you concentrate so upon them. The great human
qualities of love, strength, compassion, intellect and imagi nation do not
belong to one sex or the other.
Only
an understanding of this inherent bisexual nature will release those qualities
in each individual, regardless of sex. Those same abilities are natural characteristics
of people in each race, of course, yet you have consistently made the same kind
of distinctions in racial terms as you have in sexual ones, so that certain
races appear as feminine or masculine to you. You project your sexual beliefs
outward upon the nations, then, and often the terminology of the nations and of
wars is the same as that used to describe sex.
You
speak, for example, of domination and submission, of the master and the slave,
of the rape of a nation---terms used in war and sex alike.
Male
and female are each members of the human race--or species if you prefer--so
these divisions were made in the species itself, by itself. They are the result
of distinctions arising, again, as the species experimented with its line of
consciousness, and brought into being the appearance of separation between
itself and the rest of the natural world.
Your
identity is simply not dependent upon your psychological or biological
sexuality.
Your
sexual characteristics represent a portion of your personhood. They provide
vital areas of expression, and focal points about which to group experience.
Your sexual qualities are a part of your nature, but they do not define it.
Your
beliefs so structure your experience individually and en masse, however,
that evidential material contrary to those ideas shows itself but seldom, or in
distorted or exaggerated form. It is quite natural, biologically and
psychologically, to
operate in certain fashions that are not acceptable in your society, and that
'seem to run counter to your picture of mankind's history. In terms of your
definitions, then, it is quite natural for some people to behave as males
sexually and as females psychologically. It is quite "natural" for
others to operate in a reverse fashion.
Again, this may seem difficult to understand, because
you assign psychological characteristics to sexual affiliation, whichever it is.
There will always be people who naturally seek the experience of parenthood. All
of them will not necessarily be heterosexual at any given time.
The larger pattern of human personhood demands a
bisexual affiliation that allows leeway in sexual encounters, a leeway that
provides a framework in which individuals can express feelings, abilities, and
characteristics that follow the natural inclines of the personal psyche rather
than sexual stereotypes. I am not speaking here of anything so simple as merely
allowing women more freedom, or relieving men from the conventional
breadwinner's role. I am certainly not talking about" open marriage"
as it is currently understood, but of far greater issues. Before we can consider
these, however, there are several points I would like to make.
There are biological possibilities, seldom activated
in your present circumstances, that have some bearing upon the subject at
hand.
Puberty comes at a certain time, triggered by deep
mechanisms that are related to the state of the natural world, the condition of
the species, and those cultural beliefs that in a certain sense you transpose
upon the natural world. In other respects, your cultural environment is of
course natural. The time that puberty comes varies, then, and afterwards it is
possible to parent a child. A time then comes when the period is over. During
what
is
called the sexually active time, the larger dimensions of personhood become
strictly narrowed into sexually stereotyped roles-and all aspects of identity
that do not fit are ignored or denied. The fact is that few people fit those
roles. They are largely the result of the interpretations of religion as
conventionally understood. And the scientists, for all their seeming
independence, often simply found new intellectually acceptable reasons for
unconsciously held emotional beliefs.
Biologically there is a period very rarely experienced,
as jokingly suggested in the "sick jokes" about senility and second
childhood. This particular latent biological ability shows itself only upon the
rarest instances-because, for one thing, it represents a feat now scarcely
desirable. Physically, however, the body is quite able to completely regenerate
itself as it approaches old age. Indeed, a quite legitimate second puberty is
possible, in which the male's seed is youthfully strong and vital, and the
woman's womb is pliable and able to bear. There are, I believe, Biblical tales
of such births resulting.
In times of overpopulation, this mechanism is hardly
desirable, but it is a part of the species held in abeyance now, representing
nature's capabilities. In some areas of your world, isolated peoples live on
past a hundred years, vital and strong, because they are untouched by your
beliefs, and because they live in sympathy and accord with the world as they
know and understand it. Occasionally such second puberties happen then, with
resulting cbildbirth, as a small group attempts to maintain its own biological
stance.
Usually the second puberty follows the same sexual
orientation as the first, but not always-for it is quite possible for the new
affiliation to be the opposite of the first. This is even rarer-but so does the
species protect itself.
Through medical techniques some of your old people are
kept alive long enough so that this process begins, appearing in distorted form,
sometimes psychologically apparent but biologically frustrated. The second
puberty is dead-ended, then. It has nowhere to go. It is not now biologically
pertinent or needed.
Left alone, some of these people would die with a
feeling of satisfaction. Kept alive through medical techniques, the physical
mechanism continues its struggles to revitalize the body and bring about this
second puberty-that naturally would only come about under different conditions,
with the mind far more alert and the will unimpaired.
Now,
to some extent (underlined) there is a connection between this innate, rarely
observed second puberty and the development of cancer, in which growth is
specifically apparent in an exaggerated manner:
Give us a moment. . . In almost all such cases
involving cancer, spiritual and psychic growth is being denied, or the
individual feels that he or she can no longer grow properly in personal, psychic
terms. This attempt to grow then activates body mechanisms that result in the
overgrowth of certain cells. The individual insists upon growing or upon death,
and rorces an artificial situation in which growth itself becomes physically
disastrous.
This is because a blockage occurs. The individual wants
to grow in terms of personhood, but is afraid of doing so. There are always
individual variations that must be taken into consideration, but often such a
person feels a martyr to his or her sex, imprisoned by it and unable to escape.
This can obviously apply to cancers affecting sexual areas, but is often in the
background of any such condition. Energy is being blocked because of problems
that beganin your terms-with sexual questions in puberty. Energy is
experienced as sexual.
Now, old people who are considered senile or unmanageable
are sometimes experiencing new bursts of sexual activity for which no outlet is
given. Beside this, they have lost their conventional sexual roles, in which
they earlier expressed their energy.
There are often hormonal changes occurring that go
unnoticed. Many express a nervous, erratic type of behavior as they are
aroused-some not only sexually but intellectually. The new adolescence never
comes. The new puberty dies a slow death, for your society has no frame work
in which to understand it. And indeed it shows itself in a distorted fashion
that can appear most grotesque.
Love is a biological necessity, a rorce operating to one degree or
another in all biological life. Without love there is no physical commitment to
life-no psychic hold.
Love
exists whether or not it is sexually expressed, though it is natural for love to
seek expression. Love implies loyalty. It implies commitment. This applies to
lesbian and homosexual relationships as well as to heterosexual ones. In your
society, however, identity is so related to sexual stereotypes that few people
know themselves well enough to understand the nature of love, and to make any
such commitments.
A transitory period is currently taking place, in which
women seem to seek the promiscuous sexual freedom more generally granted to men.
It is believed that males are naturally promiscuous, aroused by sexual stimuli
almost completely divorced from any complementary "deeper" response.
The male, then, is thought to want sex whether or not he has any love response
to the woman in questionor sometimes to desire her precisely because he does
not love her. In such cases, sex becomes not an expression of love, but an
expression of derision or scorn.
So
women, accepting these ideas often, seek for a situation in which they too can
feel free to express their sexual desires openly, whether or not any love is
involved.
Yet loyalty is love's partner, and the primates display
such evidence in varying degrees. The male in particular has been taught to
separate love and sex, so that a schizophrenic condition results that tears
apart his psyche-in operational terms-as he lives his life.
The expression of sexuality is considered male, while
the expression of love is not considered manly. To some extent or another, then,
the male feels forced to divide the expression of his love from the expression
of his sexuality. It would be disastrous for women to rollow the same course.
This
great division has led to your major wars. This does not mean that men were
alone responsible for wars. It does mean that the male so divorced himself from
the common rountain of love and sex that the repressed energy came rorth in
those aggressive acts of cultural rape and death, instead of birth.
When
you look at the animal kingdom, you suppose that the male chooses blindly, led
by "dumb" instinct, so that in overall terms one female will do as
well as any other. When you discover that a certain chemical or scent will
attract a certain male insect, for example, you take it for granted that. that
element is alone responsible for drawing the male to the female. You take it for
granted, in other words, that individual differences do not apply in such cases
so remote from your own reality.
You simply are not able to understand the nature of
such consciousnesses, and so you interpret their behavior according to your
beliefs. This would be sad enough if you did not often use such distorted data
to further define the nature of male and female behavior.
In so distorting your ideas of sex, you further limit
the great capacities of human loyalty, which is always connected with love and
love's expression. Lesbian and homosexual relationships then are at best
tenuous, overwrought with confused emotions, very seldom able to maintain a
stability that allows for individual growth. Heterosexual relationships also
break down, for the identity of each partner becomes based upon sexual roles
that mayor may not apply to the individuals involved.
Since you feel that sex is the only proper method of
love's expression, and yet also believe that sex and love are divided, you are
in a quandary. These sexual beliefs are also far more important in national
relationships than you realize, for you attempt to take what you think of as a
masculine stance as a nation. So, for example, does Russia. India takes a
feminine stance-in terms of your beliefs, now.
One
small note: A male with growths of any kind, kidney stones or ulcers, for
example-has tendencies he considers feminine, and therefore
"dependent," of which he is ashamed. In a mock biological ceremony, he
gives birth to the extent that he produces within his body material that was not
there before. In ulcers the stomach becomes the womb-bloodied, giving birth to
sores-his interpretation of a male's "grotesque" attempt to express
feminine characteristics.
Chapter 5
The
Psyche, Love, Sexual Expression, and Creativity
Your ideas about sexuality and your beliefs about the
nature of the psyche often paint a picture of very contradictory elements. The
psyche and its relationship to sexuality affects your ideas of health and
illness, creativity, and all of the ordinary areas of individual life. In this
chapter, therefore, we will consider some of the implications that result.
In your terms, again, the psyche contains what you would consider male
and female characteristics, while not being male or female itself.
In
those terms and in that regard, the psyche is a bank from which sexual
affiliations are drawn. Basically, however, there are no clear, set, human,
psychological characteristics that belong to one sex or the other. Again, this
would lead to a pattern too rigid for the development of the species, and give
you, too-specialized behavior patterns that would not allow you to cope as a
speciesparticularly with the many varieties of social groupings possible.
Your psychological tests show you only the current
picture of males and females, brought up from infancy with particular sexual
beliefs. These beliefs program the child from infancy, of course, so that it
behaves in certain fashions in adulthood. The male seems to perform better
at
mathematical tasks, and so-called logical mental activity, while the female
performs better in a social context, in value development and personal
relationships. The male shows up better in the sciences, while the female is
considered intuitional.
It should be obvious to many of my readers that this is
learned behavior. You cannot teach a boy to be "the strong silent male
type," and then expect him to excel either verbally or in social
relationships. You cannot expect a girl to show" strong, logical thought
development" when she is taught that a woman is intuitional-that the
intuitions are opposed to logic, and that she must be . feminine, or nonlogical,
at all costs. This is fairly obvious.
The child is not born a sponge, however, empty but
ready to soak up knowledge. It is already soaked in knowledge. Some will come to
the surface, so to speak, and be used consciously. Some will not. I am saying
here that to some extent the child in the womb is aware of the mother's beliefs
and information, and that to some extent (underlined)
it is "programmed" to behave in a certain fashion, or to grow in a
certain fashion as a result.
Basically the species is relatively so freewheeling,
with so many potentials, that it is necessary that the mother's beliefs provide
a kind of framework in the beginning, allowing the child to focus its abilities
in desired directions. It knows ahead of time then the biological, spiritual,
and social environment into which it is born. It is somewhat prepared to grow in
a certain direction-a direction that is applicable and suited to its conditions.
Beliefs about the infant's sexual nature are of course a part of its advance
programming. We are not speaking here of forced growth patterns, or of psychic
or biological directions, impressed upon it so that any later divergence from
them causes inevitable stress or pain. The fact remains that the child
receives patterns of behavior, gently nudging it to grow in certain directions.
In normal leaming, of course, both parents urge the child to behave in certain
fashions. Beside this, however, certain general, learned patterns are
biologically transmitted to the child through the genes. Certain kinds of
knowledge are transmitted through the genes besides that generally known, having
to do with cellular formations and so forth.
Survival of the human species, as it has developed, is
a matter of belief far more than is understood-for certain beliefs are now built
in. They become biologically pertinent and transmitted. I mean something else
here besides, for example, a telepathic transmission: the translation of beliefs
into physical codes that then become biological cues. [As a result], it then
becomes easier for a boy to act in a given manner
biologically
than in another.
If women have felt that their biological survival
depended upon the cultivation of certain attributes over others, for instance,
then this information becomes chromosome data, as vital to the development of
the new organism as any other physical data involving cellular structure.
The mother also provides the same kind of information
to a male offspring. The father contributes his share in each case. Over the
generations, then, certain characteristics appear to be quite naturally male
or female, and these will vary to some extent according to the civilizations and
world conditions. Each individual is bighly unique, however, so these models for
behavior will vary. They can indeed be changed in a generation, for the
experience of each person alters the original information. This provides leeway
that is important.
The child, also, uses such information as a guide only;
as a premise upon which it bases early behavior. As the mind develops, the child
immediately begins to question the early assumptions. This questioning of basic
premises is one of the greatest divisions between you and the animal world.
The psyche then. contains, again in your terms, female
and male chracteristics. These are put together, so to speak, in the human
personality with great leeway and in many proportions.
As
simply put as possible, love is the force out of which being comes, and we will
consider this statement much more thoroughly later in this book. Love seeks
expression and creativity. Sexual expression is one way that love seeks
creativity. It is hardly the only way, however. Love finds expression through
the arts, religion, play, and helpful actions toward others. Period. It cannot
be confined to sexual expression only, nor can rules be given as to how often
normal adults should sexually express themselves.
Many men, labeled homosexual by themselves and others,
want to be fathers. Their beliefs and those of your society lead them to imagine
that they must always be heterosexual or homosexual. Many feel a desire toward
women that is also inhibited. Your male or female orientation limits you in
ways that you do not understand. For example, in many cases the gentle
"homosexual" father has a better innate idea of manliness than a
heterosexual male who believes that men must be cruel, insensitive, and
competitive. These are both stereotyped images, however.
Love can be expressed quite legitimately through the
arts. This does not mean that such a person is repressing sexuality in any given
case, and stealing its energy for creative production-though, of course, this may
be the case. Many natural artists in any field normaly express love through
such creative endeavors, rather than through sexual actions.
This does not mean that such persons never have sexual
encounters that are enjoyable, and even of an enduring nature. It means that the
thrust of their love is, overall, expressed through the production of art,
through which it seeks a statement that speaks in other than corporal terms.
A
great artist in any field or in any time instinctively feels a private
personhood that is greater than the particular sexual identity. As long as you
equate identity with your sexuality, you will limit the potentials of the
individual and of the species. Each person will generally find it easier to
operate as male or female, lesbian or homosexual, but each person is primarily
bisexual. Bisexuality implies parenthood as much as it implies lesbian or
homosexual relationships. Again, here, sexual encounters are a natural part of
love's expression, but they are not the limit of love's expression.
Many quite fine nonsexual relationships are denied,
because of the connotations placed upon lesbianism or homosexuality. Many
heterosexual relationships are also
denied to persons labeled as not being heterosexual, by
themselves or society. People so labeled often feel propelled out of sheer
confusion to express their love only through sexual acts. They feel forced to
imitate what they think the natural male or female is like, and on occasion end
up with ludicrous caricatures. These caricatures infuriate those so
imitated-because they carry such hints of truth, and point out so cleverly the
exaggerations of male
ness or femaleness that many heterosexuals have clamped
upon in their own natures.
Now: In some historical periods it was desirable in
practical terms that a man have many wives, so that if he died in battle his
seed might be planted in many wombs particularly in times when diseases struck
men and women down often in young adulthood.
When physical conditions are adverse, such social
traditions have often emerged. In times of overpopulation, so-called homosexual
and lesbian tendencies come to the surface--but also there is the tendency to
express love in other than physical ways, and the emergence of large
social issues and challenges into which men and women
can throw their energies. There are "lost" portions Bible having to do
with sexuality, and with Christ' beliefs concerning it, that were considered
blasphemous and did not come down to you through history.
Again,
it is natural to express love through sexual acts-natural and good. It is not
natural to express love only through sexual acts, however. Many of Freud's
sexual ideas did not reflect mans natural condition. The complexes and neuroses
outlined and defined are products of your traditions and beliefs. You will
naturally find some evidence for them in observed behavior. Many of the traditions
do come from the Greeks, from the great Greek play-writers, who quite
beautifully and tragically presented the quality of the psyche as it showed
itself in the light of Grecian traditions.
The boy does not seek, naturally, to
"dethrone" the father. He seeks to emulate him; he seeks to be himself
as fully as it seems to him that his father was himself. He hopes to go beyond
himself and his own capabilities for himself and for his father.
As a child he once thought that his father was
immortal, in human terms-that he could do no wrong. The son tries to vindicate
the father by doing no wrong himself, and perhaps by succeeding where it seems
the father might have failed. It is much more natural for the male to try to
vindicate the father than it is to destroy him, or envy him in negative terms.
The child is simply the male child. He is not jealous
of the father with the mother, in tIie way that is often supposed. The male
child does not possess an identity so Weused upon its maleness. I am not
saying that children do not have a sexual nature from birth. They simply do not
Weus upon their maleness or femaleness in the way that is supposed.
To the male child, the penis is something that belongs
to him personally in the same way that an arm or leg does, or that his mouth or
anus does. He does not consider it a weapon .
He is not
jealous of his father's love for the mother, for he understands quite well that
her love for him is just as strong. He does not wish to possess his mother
sexually in the way that adults currently suppose. He does not understand those
terms. He may at times be jealous of her attention, but this is not a sexual
jealousy in conventionally understood terms. Your beliefs blind you to the
sexual nature of children. They do enjoy their bodies.
They
are sexually aroused. The psychological connotations, however, are not those
assigned to them by adults.
The beliefs involving the son's inherent rivalry with
the father, and his need to overthrow him, follow instead patterns of culture
and tradition, economic and social, rather than biological or psychological.
Those ideas serve as handy explanations for behavior that is not inherent or
biologically
pertinent.
In a manner of speaking, humanity deals with different
predominant themes at different times. There may be 'minor interweaving ones,
but the nature of personality, religion, politics, the family, and the arts-all
of these are considered in the light of the predominating theme.
In usual historic terms, humanity has been experimenting
with its own unique kind of consciousness, and as I have mentioned many times,
this necessitated an arbitrary division between the subject and the perceivernature
and man-and brought about a situation in which
the
species came to consider itself apart from the rest of existence.
What you think..of as (underlined) male ego-oriented
characteristics are simply those human attributes that the species encouraged,
brought into the foreground, and stressed. Using those actually as guidelines,
you have so far viewed your world and formed your cultures. There are some
exceptions of note, but here I am speaking historically of the Western world
with its Roman and Greek heritage. Your gods became masculine then; competitive.
You saw the species pitted against nature; and man pitted against man. You
consider the Greek tragedies great because they echo so firmly your own beliefs.
Man is seen in opposition in the most immediate fashion with his own father.
Family relationships become a mirror of those beliefs, which are then of course
taken as statements of fact concerning the human condition. You thus have a very
polarized male female concept.
Those
characteristics that you consider female are, then, those that did not
predominate because they represented the source of nature from which the
species sought release. To some extent this was a true, creative, sexual
drama-again, of high pretense, for in its own way the consciousness of the
species was playing for high stakes, and the drama had to be believable.
It
was seeking for a multiplication of consciousness, forming new offshoots from
its own source. It had to pretend to dislike and disown that source in the same
way that an adolescent may momentarily turn aside from its parents in order to
encourage independence. Before the so-called flowering of Greek and Roman
cultures, consciousness had not as yet made that specialization. There were gods
and goddesses galore, and deities in whose natures the feminine and masculine
characteristics merged. There were deities part human and part animal. The
species, then, had not yet taken up the theme that has been predominant in
Western culture.
These
changes first occurred in man's stories of the deities. As the species divorced
itself from nature, so the animal gods began to vanish. Man first changed his
myths, and then altered the reality that reflected them.
Before
then there were various kinds of divisions of labor, but great leeway in sexual
expression. Children were a necessary part of the family, for a family was a
band of people who belonged together, cooperating in the search for food and
shelter.
Homosexual
or lesbian relationships, as you term them, existed quite freely, and
simultaneously. These were considered pertinent with or without sexual
expression, and served as strong bonds of sisterhood and brotherhood.
When
you view the animal kingdom, you also do so through your specialized sexual
beliefs, studying the behavior of the male and female, looking for patterns of
aggressiveness, territorial jealousy, passivity, mothering instincts, or
whatever. These specialities of interest make you blind to many larger
dimensions of animal behavior.
To
some degree, the so-called mothering instinct belongs to male and female alike
in any species that can be so designated. Animals have close friendships, with
or with out sexual expression, with members of the same sex. Love and
devotion are not the prerogatives of one sex or one species.
As a result, you see in nature only what you want to see, and you provide
yourselves with a pattern or model of nature that conforms with your beliefs.
Love
and devotion are largely seen as female characteristics. Societies and
organizations of church and state are seen as male. It is not so much that the
male and the female be considered equal as it is that the male and female
elements in each person should be released and expressed. Immediately, many of
you may be annoyed or alarmed, thinking that of course I mean sexual expression.
That is a portion of such expression. But I am speaking of releasing within each
individual the great human characteristics and abilities that are often denied
expression because they are assigned to the opposite sex.
In
your present framework, because of the malefemale specialization-the male
orientation, the implication that the ego is male while the psyche is
female-you force upon yourselves great divisions in which operationally the
intellect seems separate from the intuitions, and you set up a situation in
which opposites seem to apply where there are none. When you think of a
scientist, the majority of you will think of a male, an intellectual, an
"objective" thinker who takes great pains not to be emotional, or to
identify with the subject being examined or studied.
There
seems to be a division between science and religion, for even organized religion
has an intuitive basis. The male scientist is often ashamed of using his
intuitions, for not only do they appear to be unscientific, but female as well.
It is what others will think about his masculinity that such a man is concerned
with. To be "illogical" is a scientific. "crime"-not so much
because it is an unscientific attribute,
but because it is considered a feminine one. Science has followed the male
orientation and become its epitome. Up until the present, science has
consistently tried to do without the so-called feminine qualities. It has
divorced knowledge from emotion, understandin~ from identification, and stressed
sexuality over personhood.
To an extent, some people in the sciences manage to
blend the so-called female and male characteristics. When they do so, seeming
oppositions and contradictions disappear.
To
whatever degree, more than their contemporaries, they do not allow sexual roles
to blind them psychologically. Therefore they are more apt to combine reason and
emotion, intuitions and intellect, and in so doing invent theories that
reconcile previous contradictions. They unify, expand, and create, rather than
diversify.
Einstein was such a person in the sciences. While he
was tainted to some extent by conventional sexual beliefs, he still felt his own
personhood in such a way that he gladly took advantage of characteristics
considered feminine. As a youngster, particularly, he rebelled against maleoriented
learning and orientation. This rebellion was psychological-that is, he
maintained an acceptable male orientation in terms of sexual activity, but he
would not restrain his mind and soul with such nonsense. The world felt the
result of his great intuitive abilities, and of his devotion.
Because of the world situation, and the overall male
orientation of science, the results of his work were largely put to the uses of
manipulation and control.
Generally, reason and intellect are then considered
male qualities, and the frameworks for civilization, science, and an organized
world. The intuitions and the impulses are considered erratic, untrustworthy,
feminine, and to be controlled. The world exists because of spontaneous order.
Civilization began because of the impulse of people to be
together. It grew spontaneously and came into order. You only see the outside of many processes because your objectified viewpoint does not allow you the identification that would show you more. It seems to you then that